How to get the soft swing conversation started with my wife? Can any of you out there let me in on how you got the guts to get this conversation going with your partner the first time? I'm a little nervous to bring this up with my wife. I'm thinking the first experience should involve another guy so she doesn't think I'm doing it to bed another woman. She's a touch sensitive about a few extra pounds and I'd think knowing she's still desirable to another guy would get her in the groove. All comments appreciated because I think an occasional softswing episode would enhance our sex lives tremendously and probably improve our communication. By the way, this is an awesome site, I'm glad I found it and hopefully will be contributing like an old pro at some future time! |