This question and the size question speak to a pronounced need we males seem to have to do all that we can to please a female sex partner. Is that because we care so much about women's pleasure above our own? (I mean women never question whether they are equipped to please a man sexually or seek out long, complicated instructions on the varied and complex maneuvers required to bring their male partners to a satisfactory sexual experience - usually it is pretty easy to do) Or do we really want to make ourselves feel good about our ability to attract and sexually satisfy women (preferably a wide range of women over a lifetime) because we focus in so much on the way women perceive us to measure up our own perceptions of where we fit on the scale of being a "real man"? It really seems that winning the favors of women is the ultimate goal of every male achievement and quest. As they said in Scarface: "First, you get the money, then you get the power, THEN you get the women!" Is that a sad commentary on our inability to escape our biological programming or a statement of the immense power women wield in a free society with their sexuality?
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