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NewBiFem · 02-13-2004, 09:02 AM

Hey, everyone, thanks so much for the advice. My intent, however was to put my situation out there to further the topic of converstion. Clearly, everyone is so sincere, that the debate took a backseat to the urge to help. Thanks, really

for all the warnings, reminders, encouragement, and support.

Let me put your concerns to rest- I'm not playing until he's gone.

The extent of my experience to date is attending one gathering where I met and TALKED to several very nice couples for two hours- and left ALONE. That was my plan. That's what I did. I'm just reading about, exploring, trying to understand this culture. That's enough for now.

I COMPLETELY argree that my children come first. Don't think for one minute, OhioCouple, that they are being neglected in any way. Your OPINION is valid, but the FACT is that they are now, always have been, and always will be my first priority.

I was really asking what YOU would do given the opportunity to play with me.

Let's suppose that I had no kids... would you play with me?

Would it make a difference if I were a man in the same situation? What if I were not attractive and/or bisexual? Does the exterior package make the difference or your need to not be the cause of (more) trouble... or what?

02-13-2004, 09:02 AM	#40 (permalink)
NewBiFem Active Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 28 Location: CT Status: Single Female	back on topic Hey, everyone, thanks so much for the advice. My intent, however was to put my situation out there to further the topic of converstion. Clearly, everyone is so sincere, that the debate took a backseat to the urge to help. Thanks, really for all the warnings, reminders, encouragement, and support. Let me put your concerns to rest- I'm not playing until he's gone. The extent of my experience to date is attending one gathering where I met and TALKED to several very nice couples for two hours- and left ALONE. That was my plan. That's what I did. I'm just reading about, exploring, trying to understand this culture. That's enough for now. I COMPLETELY argree that my children come first. Don't think for one minute, OhioCouple, that they are being neglected in any way. Your OPINION is valid, but the FACT is that they are now, always have been, and always will be my first priority. I was really asking what YOU would do given the opportunity to play with me. Let's suppose that I had no kids... would you play with me? Would it make a difference if I were a man in the same situation? What if I were not attractive and/or bisexual? Does the exterior package make the difference or your need to not be the cause of (more) trouble... or what?