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NewBiFem · 02-12-2004, 03:14 PM

call me a cheater? would you play with me if you knew my situation?

I'm an attractive bi woman... I have a full and busy life- 2 kids, my own business, volunteer work, lots of straight friends... I have NO interest in a romantic relationship right now- I don't have time to date, nor am I interested in taking my chances with strangers...

the lifestyle seems the perfect place for me.

BUT I have an ex-husband who still lives with me. We are in the middle of a divorce- he is supposed to move out this spring when he will take a job out of state, but he's still here... the papers aren't signed... I'm not technically free.

I would love to tell him- look, I'm going out, mind your own business, but, of course, I have to be "sneaky," so he doesn't find out and tell my family and friends- or WORSE, try to take my children away!!!

Should I sit at home and cry about it? I've been "under his thumb" and repressed for almost 13 years...

I would rather celebrate my sexuality. I want to have fun and forget about that mess for a while...

so??? would you play with me, or turn me away???

02-12-2004, 03:14 PM	#33 (permalink)
NewBiFem Active Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 28 Location: CT Status: Single Female	would you...? call me a cheater? would you play with me if you knew my situation? I'm an attractive bi woman... I have a full and busy life- 2 kids, my own business, volunteer work, lots of straight friends... I have NO interest in a romantic relationship right now- I don't have time to date, nor am I interested in taking my chances with strangers... the lifestyle seems the perfect place for me. BUT I have an ex-husband who still lives with me. We are in the middle of a divorce- he is supposed to move out this spring when he will take a job out of state, but he's still here... the papers aren't signed... I'm not technically free. I would love to tell him- look, I'm going out, mind your own business, but, of course, I have to be "sneaky," so he doesn't find out and tell my family and friends- or WORSE, try to take my children away!!! Should I sit at home and cry about it? I've been "under his thumb" and repressed for almost 13 years... I would rather celebrate my sexuality. I want to have fun and forget about that mess for a while... so??? would you play with me, or turn me away???