Cheating is cheating whether it be a married female or male. The same result will be had and that is someone is going to be hurt and devastated. Why do people cheat , some say lack of self esteem and others say boredom , we say stupidity. Why cheat if you have a great spouse ? We have seen many cheaters in the lifestyle and we just can't understand why. Swinging is generally about Couples but have it's branches of bifemales , single males etc. There is absolutely no excuse to cheat.