The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Be honest - if you have a bi male, you aren't a straight couple!

DeesireCpl · 02-10-2004, 09:14 PM

We find it really interesting to see people interpret things the wrong way ....now nowhere did we say ...it was bad to bi ...or to be a bi male .....or to be discreet

But we did say it is unacceptable to lie. This couple is quite funny the female cuts up cross dressers and single males she totally attacks them and does not seem to be the open minded type. But she feels it ok to lie to her fellow swingers in the lifestyle that her hubby is straight all the while is bisexual.

And to those who say it's not our business wanna make a bet oh yes it is especially when this couple plays with some people we do as well. We all worry about people who are not honest.

As for being open minded to be open minded you must be honest and open not a bold faced liar as these two are.
Yes you should disclose what your sexuality is , it's no different then disclosing your marital status.

If the male being bisexual doesn't matter to you that's your choice , I know for us it doesn't matter at all ....
However the lying does matter to us.
And the total dishonesty and total hypocrisy of this couple is just wrong.
Being Discreet is one thing but lying to someone is another. The couple should disclose that the male is bi or at least curious and then it's up to the other couple to be discreet about the information that was given to them. And then act accordingly.

Lying is not appropriate or acceptable in any forum.
Discretion is a totally different story.
How can anyone condone dishonesty ?

02-10-2004, 09:14 PM	#13 (permalink)
DeesireCpl Flamer/Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 78 Location: Can. Status: us	Isn't It Funny ..... We find it really interesting to see people interpret things the wrong way ....now nowhere did we say ...it was bad to bi ...or to be a bi male .....or to be discreet But we did say it is unacceptable to lie. This couple is quite funny the female cuts up cross dressers and single males she totally attacks them and does not seem to be the open minded type. But she feels it ok to lie to her fellow swingers in the lifestyle that her hubby is straight all the while is bisexual. And to those who say it's not our business wanna make a bet oh yes it is especially when this couple plays with some people we do as well. We all worry about people who are not honest. As for being open minded to be open minded you must be honest and open not a bold faced liar as these two are. Yes you should disclose what your sexuality is , it's no different then disclosing your marital status. If the male being bisexual doesn't matter to you that's your choice , I know for us it doesn't matter at all .... However the lying does matter to us. And the total dishonesty and total hypocrisy of this couple is just wrong. Being Discreet is one thing but lying to someone is another. The couple should disclose that the male is bi or at least curious and then it's up to the other couple to be discreet about the information that was given to them. And then act accordingly. Lying is not appropriate or acceptable in any forum. Discretion is a totally different story. How can anyone condone dishonesty ?