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Originally posted by Amy and Mike
This is Mike, the male half.
I really dont see how it's any of your busines whether or not someone is "bi". They have no obligation to disclose anything about their sexuality to you or anyone else. And if they lie and tell you otherwise then I say good for them. It really amazes me that swingers (who you would think would be very open minded) can be so uptight. And to think that someone owes you a full disclosure of their sexuality just because you swing with them is beyond uptight –_its ridiculous. |
Hi Mike, well when it comes to sharing my husband and sharing myself with another couple, being upfront and honest when answering an ad, and then speaking to them directly and they still are not upfront about the fact, waiting until they get you in person to disclose there information, then only they lose and have to deal with the rejection.
You said you are amazed that swingers can be so uptight
maybe it is just for that reason that us as swingers ARE openminded and get miffed at the fact that a couple would just not be upfront and say that the male 1/2 is bi.
And to wrnakedru2...yes after being in the lifestyle for as long as we have, we have run into ALL kinds from people sending us there highschool pics to one couple even sent us there wedding photo, forgetting to state that it was 37 years old etc...we have every form of ad out, we have come to the conclusion that people never read them, just see a pic and answer it, so we generally just stick to the club scene
as far as the bicouple that we met that were not upfront even during an hour phone call with regards to likes/dislikes, we felt we handled the situation correctly that night, introduced them to our friends at the club, etc.. so there is no need for us to do any examination of our own profile's self description, because we do both have very open minds, just ours are not used to being lied too