I think if someone advertises as straight and then comes out as bi when you meet, yes, that is being dishonest. If they advertise as straight with the intent to play straight, then I don't see a problem. I am straight, but wouldn't have a problem playing with a bi-male couple with the caveat that I wouldn't be involved with the male. We have done that, no problem. We are also nudists and BDSMers as well as swingers. There are a lot of crossovers, but mostly not. So we don't advertise we swing to dungeon denizens, but don't hide it either. We don't advertise that we swing or bdsm to nudists, but don't hide it either. Basically, we will play to the comfort level of whomever we are with. We're really not all that scary.
J
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