This is Mike, the male half.
I really dont see how it's any of your busines whether or not someone is "bi". They have no obligation to disclose anything about their sexuality to you or anyone else. I absolutely agree that this type of lying is really just being discrete. If I was having sex with males (which i dont, by the way) and someone asked me, I would most likely deny it if I knew they might be biased against me because of it.
You go on to say:
"Most couples have a real problem with bi males mainly because most males of lifestyle couples are straight." Yeah, well so what? If you have a problem with that then its YOUR problem, not theirs. And if they lie and tell you otherwise then I say good for them. It really amazes me that swingers (who you would think would be very open minded) can be so uptight. And to think that someone owes you a full disclosure of their sexuality just because you swing with them is beyond uptight –_its ridiculous.
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