Excellent well-written post with many in-depth thoughts, Spoomonkey! We think "Intermarital sex" is a very good term because it excludes everything except two (or more) couples playing together.
And, Melaswen, the cheaters (both male and female) and the single people are not looking for the same thing we are. We're looking for fun experiences to share with our spouses. The "dregs" as you call them, are in no way even capable of that. And if a married man leaves his wife at home and plays without telling her, there's no way he can even understand intermarital sex, much less be "looking for the same thing."
Mr. Alura
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