DeesireCpl
The couple you describe is following the example of the swinging community. Present your lifestyle one way while leading one different from what you present to the public. The swinger word for what most would call lying is "discretion". I have been and always will be outspoken for swingers not hiding what they do. I don't advocate shouting it from the tallest rooftop, but don't outright lie when asked directly if you swing. Some on this very board recommend lying when asked directly if you swing. If someone hiding one thing worries you maybe you should look over this board really well, and decide if swinging really is for you. I have found that among people that I meet at clubs and parties their opinions follow those on this board. The swing community as a whole hides their lifestyle. If swingers can lie or hide lifestyle choices to relatives and life long friends what makes you think they are going to be truthful with you.
Bill
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