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nwazscore · 02-09-2004, 01:39 PM

I know for one that my SO had bi fantasies that he did not tell me about for a long time. He finally did tell me. It was a little bit of a shock to me at first because of society's views on this but I like some bi action with another female and I had to admit to myself that I had often fantasized about seeing him with another man. I'd even had desires to get a strap-on and do stuff to him. I told him about my fantasies, and I think he was surprised to find out that I had gotten off on the idea of him with another man. Now we're looking to explore those feelings he has, but have yet to meet up with a couple with a bi-male yet.

Anyhoo, I guess what I'd say is that I kind of wished he'd told me from the beginning. I'd rather him tell me than hide it from me. He and I are in this together, and I'd rather we open and honest about what we think, want, feel, etc.

02-09-2004, 01:39 PM	#14 (permalink)
nwazscore Active Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 17 Location: Kingman, AZ Status: Couple	Male Bi Poll I know for one that my SO had bi fantasies that he did not tell me about for a long time. He finally did tell me. It was a little bit of a shock to me at first because of society's views on this but I like some bi action with another female and I had to admit to myself that I had often fantasized about seeing him with another man. I'd even had desires to get a strap-on and do stuff to him. I told him about my fantasies, and I think he was surprised to find out that I had gotten off on the idea of him with another man. Now we're looking to explore those feelings he has, but have yet to meet up with a couple with a bi-male yet. Anyhoo, I guess what I'd say is that I kind of wished he'd told me from the beginning. I'd rather him tell me than hide it from me. He and I are in this together, and I'd rather we open and honest about what we think, want, feel, etc.