 never intentionally
There was a 22 year old college student I met with a few times. She wore several rings on each finger, was always with a group of other known bi women, and had no kids so I had no reason to believe she was married. Mainly because of her age and the fact she was a grad student. Stupid of me, I know.
I knew she was a swinger because she first asked if I ever had a 3some then if I ever been to a swing club. When I said yes she said she and her friends were looking for some nice guys who would go with them to a convention in Chicago and wanted to get to know us better, as in conventional dating as well as swinging. We had several boy-girl dates as well as group encounters with her three friends and two other guys they knew.
What I didn't know was that her new husband wanted nothing to do with the lifestyle and thought that I was just a classmate she was studying with. I was not happy with her or her friends (who helped her cheat) when I found out she was married. This girl and her husband ended up getting divorced only seven or eight months later. I don't know if I believe it, but she said she was the one who filed for divorce. I still didn't want anything to do with her, though.
"Once a cheater, always a cheater" applies to women too.
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