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08-15-2002, 08:32 PM

quote:
Originally posted by mehim:
... we never had a jellois moment . maby because we talked and talked for a long time bevore we tried the walk...

Hi mehim. Probably be seeing you in a couple of weeks. You are almost certainly right. We did jump in too fast but the fact remains that we did and nothing will change that. We have had some wonderful times and we have had some rough riding but we have no regrets and are committed to our marriage with or without swinging. But "with" would be lots more fun. Don't you agree? So we intend to continue to talk while we walk cuz once you have started walking, crawling is just so damn boring. Oh but buy the way. I thought this thread was about "dealing with guilt". Everybody seems to want to comment on the jealousy issue. I asked about the guilt question because it is much harder for me to deal with. I can prove my devotion to Ding and therefore alleviate her jealousy but how do you deal with guilt?

[ 08-15-2002, 08:43 PM: Message edited by: L & D ]

08-15-2002, 08:32 PM	#11 (permalink)
Len & Ding Guest Posts: n/a	quote: Originally posted by mehim: ... we never had a jellois moment . maby because we talked and talked for a long time bevore we tried the walk... Hi mehim. Probably be seeing you in a couple of weeks. You are almost certainly right. We did jump in too fast but the fact remains that we did and nothing will change that. We have had some wonderful times and we have had some rough riding but we have no regrets and are committed to our marriage with or without swinging. But "with" would be lots more fun. Don't you agree? So we intend to continue to talk while we walk cuz once you have started walking, crawling is just so damn boring. Oh but buy the way. I thought this thread was about "dealing with guilt". Everybody seems to want to comment on the jealousy issue. I asked about the guilt question because it is much harder for me to deal with. I can prove my devotion to Ding and therefore alleviate her jealousy but how do you deal with guilt? [ 08-15-2002, 08:43 PM: Message edited by: L & D ]
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