Boy, sounds like you all think the deck is stacked against us! I sincerely hope that you are not right. I thought I stated rather imfatactly at the beginning of my post that NEITHER of us want to end the swinging and I guess I should also add that BOTH of us are commented to making it work. Perhaps I over stated the problem or perhaps I understated our commitment to each other. Ding and I are in a committed relationship! we have been married seventeen years and we are more in love and more turned on by each other than at the beginning. In seventeen years she and I have never went to bed angry or ever parted without a kiss.
That said there are the jealousy and guilt issues, but I find it hard to imagine that these aren't issues for all couples in varying degrees! Do you really mean to say that you have never questioned the ethics of your actions and never had any feelings of jealousy? Not even in the beginning?
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