I have to fully agree with the 2 posters above you both have to sit down and get to the bottom of this I have seen firsthand what jealousy and guilt can do to a relationship it doesnt get any better unless you both can overcome this the couple i know that is going through the same thing they are at a stage where their marriage is really rocky and it is not getting any better it started out the way you are describing and with all the advice I give them to step back and look at things with a clear mind and discuss whats going on and decide if this lifestyle is for them is not working they both see it as the others fault and dont talk now it has spilt over into the pressence of the couples they meet with as far as having a big fight in front of them and slinging words (also directed at the couples) getting the other couples involved in their petty arguments and attacks of each other so my advice for you or anyone that has this problem is to sit down and talk I would hate to see anyone else get to this stage of where they are at now.
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