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Old 01-24-2004, 01:53 AM   #23 (permalink)
Vjklander
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Originally posted by twoloves

Am I wrong here? Am I too controlling? Should I just let her go and not worry about it? Am I being paranoid? Have we just, after 25 years, come to separate roads? Any other ideas out there? Have any of you out there negotiated solo play successfully?

2luvs
Your wife is acting as part of a couple - with this other man. There is more than just friendship and sex here.
Mrs Vjk or I will occassionally play solo with one of our long term friends, but either of us would stop in a second if the other said to. Our friends would also stop immediately if they thought either of us wasn't kewl with it.
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