Thank you, Avantgarden38, for clarification of your post. With your experiences, I can see how you have arrived at your conclusions. However, because a man doesn't want his wife with another man, and his wife has determined she doesn't need another man is not necessarily the definition of a couple with "issues." I would tend to agree with VegasLee in that they have determined their personal boundaries and the lifestyle is comprised of many with differing boundaries. Then too, for many, as time goes by and they become more comfortable with themselves, each other and other swingers, they change their boundaries to include aspects of swinging they may have been opposed to initially.
I can appreciate your opinions and experiences. However, your original post read as more "fact" than opinion and that is what I had issue with. Again, thanks for the clarification. - EBF
