Issues because someone has set their bounderies?
The fun and great thing about the lifestyle is that it is something different to each and every person in it.
In 25 years of it I have seen alot but I am sure not everything.
I have seen couples that will play apart say that "she can not play tonight because I did not get any last time."
Other couples that will come to the club 10 times and go home each time without playing because they could not find that "perfect couple" that they both liked.
There is people out there that say things about Laura and I because she gets to play ALOT and I play when I want to. We do not keep "Score." Damn, if we did she can't have sex for the next 100 years so that I can catch up.
As I said, it is different for everyone. What ever makes both of us happy is all that works for us. I have found that as long as she is Happy I can promise you that I am very happy.
All these titles and idea's of what the Lifestyle should be is totall BS. The lifestyle is what works for you and no one else, nothing less, nothing more.
Everyone on this board has their rules for theirself and boundries. Just because someone only wants to play in their idea of what the lifestyle for them does not mean they have issues.
For what should be such open minded people I have found that many people in the lifestyle are the harshest and first to judge others.
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