 A view from a couple that only wants a FMF encounter
I had to post on your generalization here. I really don't like being automatically put into a catagory, when people don't even know our situation. flamethrow
We have been swinging for 2 yrs Actively. And we ONLY have FMF encounters. It isn't that my husband says he doesn't want me with another man. It is MY preference. He has said MANY times that if I ever want us to try couples or even single men all I have to do is says the word.
As EBF said, I am in this to explore my bisexuality with another women, and my hubby is GLADLY along for the ride.
And it isn't because I don't NEED another man (which I don't, but I don't NEED another women either). It is because I don't WANT another man.
Isn't this lifestyle supposed to be about what people WANT, not NEED?
We have been married 14 Years, and we were happy before this and if it ever stopped we would be happy after it to. So I really don't see how you can say that people that only want a FMF have issues. Couldn't you also say that couples that only look for couples have insecurity (SP) issues, that if they only go MFM or FMF that one might get to attached to the single person???
I am not generalizing couples that only want other couples, I am just giving an example.
Ok, I will got off my soapbox now.................... you can flamethrow away at me.
Robin
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