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Originally posted by Avantgarden38
We are probably at risk saying, in our opinion, that couples who only desire a fmf threesome aren't entirely honest or comfortable with the swinging environment. Someone somewhere in the relationship has an issue. Not that there is anything wrong with that issue, we are just noting that it exists. Many men fear another man it seems. Many women say they don't "need" another man. You don't need a Hummer SUV either, but there are millions of them out there. |
Since you've already acknowledged being "at risk," I'll go ahead and respond here. (I probably would have anyway, tho'.)
Why on earth would you assume that a couple interested in only a FMF isn't being honest or isn't entirely comfortable in the swinging environment? Couldn't I just as easily state that any couple that was interested in
ONLY a MF/MF encounter was not being entirely honest and comfortable? You and many others would probably interpret that as a rather absurd and presumptive statement, wouldn't you?
And someone somewhere in the FMF relationship has issues? I honestly do not understand your assumptions on this one. Is it entirely unreasonable to think that a woman might not be interested in another man, but rather, is interested in exploring and/or sharing her bisexuality with another female? And that would have nothing to do with a spouse/SO having "issues."
And yeah...Hummer SUV's...lots of them out there...along with Caddy's, Honda's, Chevy's, Fords, etc., etc., etc.....
Sorry...don't mean to sound so harsh, and maybe you can add to this post for the purposes of clarification. Maybe I missed something.
- EBF