We've tried a bit of everything and keep coming back to where we started--the FMF threesome. There's just something intimate and deliciously soft about it. Not that you shouldn't keep an open mind regarding couples, but couples aren't your only outlet. I don't think it's anyone's place to say people's sexual preferences are suspect.
The elusive single bi females are certainly out there, but you probably won't have much luck at swingers clubs (at least those outside of a few major metro areas) or trolling adult friend finder--most aren't hardcore lifestyle afficionados. A more subtle approach is required--widen your circle of sex-positive acquaintances, place understated ads on sites like nerve.com and craigslist, get out there and start meeting people.
When you meet someone, be gentle, be genuine, and understand that the third is in a somewhat vulnerable position. She doesn't want to be your disposable sex toy, but she is looking for the same excitement and fulfillment that you are.
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