While we can't add substantially to the wisdom you've received from Yawanna, Lady Cleo, and Night Goddess, we wish to add our best wishes to both of you in resolving your dilemma. Any marriage as enduring as y'all's is worth saving but both have to want it.
It seems possible that two marriages are being threatened here. Have you considered that the time may have come for all four to discuss the situation? Some day, somehow, you're going to have to.
We apologize for our light hearted handling of your question in our previous post. Playing separately has never been a big part of our experience or fantasies. Anything that may threaten marriage is not an acceptable part of the life style, in our opinion.
We hope the love y'all have enjoyed for many years can support both of you in working this out together.
Alura |