Lady Cleo, You said lots there that addresses the core issues of what constitutes a solid relationship: both partners are interested in what is best for them, maintains the relationship, and keeps boundaries intact. Kudos for a well-stated post.
Mr.twoloves, I hope your wife recognizes what she is possibly losing by insisting on 'her way or the highway...' I hope you survive this situation with at least a clearer understanding of what you want......or don't want. You're hearing from lots of couples that they move at the pace of the partner who is least comfortable. To me, this means respecting the relationship instead of giving one person's desires priority. The marriage is the first priority. Period.
Good luck to you. |