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Hubby and i have tried full swap 2x, with same couple. He is fine during oral sex and putting on condom but once it gets to "point of entry" it becomes "shy". Even after this he and the other female start again with oral play and he is ready to go..but again is "shy" once it comes to the actual "point of entry".

Due to this he says, he no longer wants to full swap since obviously he can't.(his words) i have tried to talk to him about viagra but says he doesn't feel he has a problem to need it, since he has no problem with me and becomes upset if i try to push him to try it. (he says he gets upset because it is a sensitive issue)

Up until this point we had only done ff, with him participating in oral play on occassions and soft swing. Eventually we began meeting people that were into full swap, which we talked about it and decided to give it a try.

Should i try to talk to him about it, again? I would like to continue, but only if he is enjoying himself too. Would his "shy member" just be jitters or do you think it is something to do with who we are with? Or would you say, as he says, this is a sign that we should not swap or maybe we are just not ready for yet?

I definately do not want to push him into anything he is not ready or wanting to do.