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Originally posted by Avantgarden38
We are probably at risk saying, in our opinion, that couples who only desire a fmf threesome aren't entirely honest or comfortable with the swinging environment. Someone somewhere in the relationship has an issue. Not that there is anything wrong with that issue, we are just noting that it exists. Many men fear another man it seems. |
Wow---this is so true in our opinion. Someone is laying down big ground rules in order to swing. We also like the m/f/m/f thing because we have no hormone battles going on.
The f/m/f thing is all good, but at the same time how about the m/f/m thing in return? I call it an "even" score, but an easy way to not do that is play with a cpl, but most cpls who just want a f/m/f play the man is calling the shots. Not always, but it seems to be more like that trend.
Everybody is different in this lifestyle so we say always talk out things first before the play begins. As time goes on your rules will change. Best of luck finding the playmate(s).