We have experienced the fmf threesome a few times. Honestly, we prefer the dynamic of a couple, especially in a social "dating" arena.
We love to watch another couple in love together. The variety of the foursome is also quite excellent.
We are probably at risk saying, in our opinion, that couples who only desire a fmf threesome aren't entirely honest or comfortable with the swinging environment. Someone somewhere in the relationship has an issue. Not that there is anything wrong with that issue, we are just noting that it exists. Many men fear another man it seems. Many women say they don't "need" another man. You don't need a Hummer SUV either, but there are millions of them out there.
It's worth talking through those issues and trying to find a compatable couple. The fmf was fun, we prefer the fmfm.
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