My hubby and I have been reading this post and he is of the mind that he doenst really care as long as I am having a good time ( he says it much cruder than that
) he is fine . His opinion is important in who we play with as much as mine is its 50 / 50 he can say no I can say no for us its the only way it would work.
As for me I cant really say size has a big say on if we see them again ..if used correctly I can have a good time with a pinky finger