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OhioCouple · 07-23-2002, 11:11 AM

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Originally posted by youngswingers:
But contrary to the great advise you've received from fine people on this board, we would suggest hearing the lady out. She obviously is looking for a confident

Call me old, call me staunchy, call me set in my ways, but in my opionion, I have raised 3 kids who confide in me with issues more than I am willing to hear at times. [Eek!]

I am not willing to be a sounding board for those that cannot openly talk with their own partners about personal lifestyle issues that are bothering them. We came into this lifestyle with the intention of "enhancing" our lives and not to be a confidant or a "crutch".

Certainly, if it were something pertaining to something out of the lifestyle...we would lend an ear, offer advice and support...but to lend an ear for those that have "internal" issues that need to be addressed....I think not. These sort of issues are better addressed with their partners.

Lori
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07-23-2002, 11:11 AM	#14 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: Originally posted by youngswingers: But contrary to the great advise you've received from fine people on this board, we would suggest hearing the lady out. She obviously is looking for a confident Call me old, call me staunchy, call me set in my ways, but in my opionion, I have raised 3 kids who confide in me with issues more than I am willing to hear at times. I am not willing to be a sounding board for those that cannot openly talk with their own partners about personal lifestyle issues that are bothering them. We came into this lifestyle with the intention of "enhancing" our lives and not to be a confidant or a "crutch". Certainly, if it were something pertaining to something out of the lifestyle...we would lend an ear, offer advice and support...but to lend an ear for those that have "internal" issues that need to be addressed....I think not. These sort of issues are better addressed with their partners. Lori VOTE FOR JULIE TODAY!
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