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OhioCouple · 07-19-2002, 11:25 PM

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Originally posted by JustAskJulie:

All that said.... My advice, seperate yourself from this couple. If they have problems don't make them yours. The fact that this lifestyle may not be right for them or maybe they took it too far has nothing to do with you. I have found that often when we have friends who are having problems in their relationships it tends to make us look more closely at our own and worry. That can be a good thing but it can also be a bad thing if you let it create problems that don't exist.

Julie,

We just wanted to comment on this. You hit the nail on the head. After discussing our own personal relationship, we know that we are giving to ourselves something that we both enjoy.

Call us naive or whatever but I think we just assumed that most swingers were well adjusted in their own lives. Damn, getting tired of the learning experiences...

Lori and Gene

07-19-2002, 11:25 PM	#8 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	quote: Originally posted by JustAskJulie: All that said.... My advice, seperate yourself from this couple. If they have problems don't make them yours. The fact that this lifestyle may not be right for them or maybe they took it too far has nothing to do with you. I have found that often when we have friends who are having problems in their relationships it tends to make us look more closely at our own and worry. That can be a good thing but it can also be a bad thing if you let it create problems that don't exist. Julie, We just wanted to comment on this. You hit the nail on the head. After discussing our own personal relationship, we know that we are giving to ourselves something that we both enjoy. Call us naive or whatever but I think we just assumed that most swingers were well adjusted in their own lives. Damn, getting tired of the learning experiences... Lori and Gene
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