We are new to this as well. We have only experienced soft-swinging sex. If she had a problem with swinging then I have no problems or objections to take a "break" or stop all together. There is one couple that we have chatted with at the club we go to regularly. They have some pretty interesting stories about the weird situations they have been presented with while meeting other couples. They have had to cut all ties with some of these people or just walk away in mid date. The situation you are in seems unique in the fact that the female is failing to communicate her feelings with her husband. I would be hurt if my wife discussed "our" issues regarding swinging behind my back with a another couple. Could it be that she trusts you two more than her own husband. That's a little weird. Maybe you two should cut ties with this couple.
"I don't mean to be too callous here but I feel that you should simply stay out of this
situation as much as possible"
I agree with Walrus. Walk away.
Just remember that one couples problems are not yours. Let us know what comes about.
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