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I know this is a very touchy subject but I really need to know.

Here it goes....We have been swinging for a year now and I have found that ALL four of the men have had a problem either getting or keeping an erection. The first time we play they usually cant get one at all ( I never exspect alot from the first time with anyone since we are all real nervous) It does get a little better after each time but not much, usually maybe 5 minutes at a time. My husband on the other hand gets real hard and stays that way for hours. They have all said sorry, with reasons as to why. Dont get me wrong I know how guys function and nerves play a huge part along with other factors. I have always had a great time playing but i am starting to get a little frusterated about this. Is this real common???? Is there something I can do to improve this? I am very understanding and find other things to do and really do enjoy the evening. I am just feeling a little cheated I guess. And yes me and my husband have talked alot about this and he gets a little frusterated about it too.

Anyone have any advice??? Have you men had this problem or have you women ran into this alot??? What have you dont (besides viagra) to help improve the situation. HELP