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Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
The Libra side of my personality is taking over here...
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And so is mine...
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Yes, in some respects, I think you are being a tad defensive when you consider the vast numbers of comments we've seen from couples that have such a hard time separating the "real" single men from the players. If you consider the numbers of responses they get from singles, you might be able to see that they want to really verify you are "for real" rather than wasting a bunch of time on those that aren't. And the same holds true for those that contact you...they want to know.
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ES stated that this couple offered nothing about themselves, skirted around his questions, but yet they want his telephone number? In my opinion, a single is entitled to as much information as another requests of them. If they are going to request a phone number, with hardly any exchange of information and what information was given is vague at best, should they be requesting a phone number at this point? What is the harm in answering questions such as "What kind of food do you like? or What kind of music do you enjoy?" Pretty typical questions in my book and certainly nothing that gives away your identity, it does however give you some sort of sense of the the likes and dislikes of the person behind the computer name, without going sexual in nature.
While we have never actively persued a relationship with a single male (or female for that matter) there was a time when we did not have singles blocked on our ad site and the players were pretty easy to see through. Usually one liners asking for more pictures or sending us pictures of their genitals. If we were in contact with singles, I for one would be pleased by a request for more general information than one asking me to send more pictures or telling me how they could please me like no one else in the world could. I feel that singles should expect the same courtesy. Players get bored with typical conversation and there are a lot of 'armchair masturbationists' out there...and they aren't just limited to singles either.