Speaking for myself, I think being taken seriously is my biggest obstacle to swinging. With clubs basically off limits, most of my attempts at swinging have come from ads and most of the responses I've gotten have been either "Give me your phone number NOW or we won't respond" or "We said we enjoy single males but we don't meet men we don't know"
. My personal favorite is "I/we have read some of your posts on the bulletin board, and decided I/we really don't believe you're single so don't write us anymore."
Life