I do notthink that my husband is going to leave me for another woman and I thoughtthat I had made it quite clear that my feelings were not that it is ok as long as it is just me getting what I want. I came to this board looking for some help in getting past my fears so that I COULD hopefully do this for HIM. He is the one that asked me to sleep with another man as a fulfillment of his fantasy and to help me fulfill my fantasy. I have never asked him for this - even though I do enjoy it.
We do both realize that we probably jumped into this faster than we should have - especially with the couple - but we are enjoying the MFM (both of us) and plan to continue it. It is mainly me trying to pay him back for his generosity, I guess - but without going at it wrongly again so that we both can enjoy it without causing hurt feelings.
I really appreciate all of your responses! This board is extremely helpful and you all seem very insightful and caring. Thank you very much! :p
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