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Originally posted by Brian:
<STRONG>Being a little hard on her arent you Dave???? </STRONG>
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Not really. I'm seeing something differant than you is all.
I'm seeing the words No No No....NO But, I'm also seeing "It's okay, as long as I'm the only one doing anything. Because I'm afraid that some woman will steal my husband."
What are you seeing?
There have been bounderies crossed already. And, there are more being asked to cross. That word NO. Keeps coming back into play. As does the word trust. There seems to be several "trust" issues here.
#1 He trust her, but she can't bring herself to trust him.
#2 He broke that trust with the first encounter.
#3 We view
surprise meetings as a deal killer, when meeting couples. ANYONE who surprises their spouse in this manner especially a "newbie", needs to check their priorities. ALTHOUGH..people that have been in the lifestyle awhile do this occasionally. We'd NEVER recommend it to a new couple! Especially a couple who is not 100% into the lifestyle.