Insecurity
Lacking stability; troubled:
Lacking self-confidence; plagued by anxiety:
Points to ponder:
THE main rule of swinging. NO MEANS NO
How we control our jealousy, is what sets us apart from non-swinging couples.
What we do, is done as a couple. And, to the satisfaction of each other. Not just one of us. If for any reason, one of us decides something is not appropriate, it doesn't happen. PERIOD! We never question the reason why. Although we may discuss it at a later date, this is to insure that we got it correct and to avoid it in the future.
About this couple...US
David is straight...He likes to see Maggie with other men, as well as women.
Maggie by her own admission, is NOT bi. Unless she finds a woman attractive and is turned on by her. Then she is ???? not bi
The point here is, we have reached a "comfort zone". With each other and ourselves. While we may not always get exactly what we want, we do try to accommodate each other. After all, there are 2 people involved in a couple.