Thank you for your reply, I really appreciate it. No, I am not insecure in the bedroom right now. And I do enjoy the MFM thing very much. And so does my hubby. I guess my main thing is that when we started talking about the swinging thing, and when we actually decided to try it - I had told him that I wasn't sure I would be comfortable with another woman being present at all. But now he mentioned that he would like to try it...and I want to try it for his sake. Yes, it would be me doing something for him only. He has told me over and over that it really doesn't bother him if we don't do it with another couple - and that he doesn't feel cheated - but I feel like he is and want to help him out. But before I do this, I want to know if the feelings I have are normal or what?
I'm really wanting to know if some of my fears are normal jitters or if I should wait until I feel less fearful or if it is a sign that I will never be able to do it. I would like to know if anyone else has had these fears and went forward with the experience and what the outcome was and any suggestions as to what I can do to overcome my fears.
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