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Originally posted by skeghed:
<STRONG>I still am not bi and I don't know how I am going to take it if I think the other woman is more attractive than me or if she gives him a better orgasm than me. </STRONG>
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So you're not bi! This shouldn't be an issue at all. Especially since you're not into couples or females. Did you leave something out here?
Better orgasm? For a man? Come on!!! While there are differant levels of orgasms for men. Most men have their most intense orgasms with someone who knows them, completely. Some...don't even have an orgasm in a "swinging" type situation. Not all...just some.
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It is always him who suggests we do it again
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Why is this? Maybe you aren't as into it as he is. Maybe you don't like it at all. Either way, someone must make the effort to arrange these things. We've never bumped into anyone that followed us home & jumped into bed with us. One of us has to ask! If you're not comfortable with this. You should stop altogether. It sounds as if you're only doing this to please him. With a fear of losing him if you don't.
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I am afraid it will make me feel insecure in the bedroom and about myself in general.
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Well, from what you've posted so far. Your already there hun!!!!