The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Advice to newbies on going to swinger clubs

frenzb4sex · 12-31-2003, 09:41 AM

TNT--Wonderful post. Where Lora and I live, however, there isn't a club within 2 hours of us, and the closest we've come to a club atmosphere is a few meet and greets, where 30-40 couples attended.

We've heard wonderful things and some not-so-wonderful things about the clubs themselves as well as some of the patrons, and at this time, we are not so inclined on "getting on the dance floor" so to speak, much in due part because, as stated, these clubs are almost 3 hours away.

But my question is this--for all of those curious and REALLY new couples out there, would you suggest meeting with couples one on one to get your proverbial "swinging" feet wet, or do you think that going to a club can be done at any time, regardless of swing experience?? While you do paint a very positive picture for the clubs and I appreciate the perspective, I was wondering what all of you thought about the experience level of swinging and how it may affect a person's enjoyment level at a club.....

Tim

12-31-2003, 09:41 AM	#9 (permalink)
frenzb4sex Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 239 Location: Central Illinois Status: Male of Couple SLS Name:frenzb4sex	Experience Level? TNT--Wonderful post. Where Lora and I live, however, there isn't a club within 2 hours of us, and the closest we've come to a club atmosphere is a few meet and greets, where 30-40 couples attended. We've heard wonderful things and some not-so-wonderful things about the clubs themselves as well as some of the patrons, and at this time, we are not so inclined on "getting on the dance floor" so to speak, much in due part because, as stated, these clubs are almost 3 hours away. But my question is this--for all of those curious and REALLY new couples out there, would you suggest meeting with couples one on one to get your proverbial "swinging" feet wet, or do you think that going to a club can be done at any time, regardless of swing experience?? While you do paint a very positive picture for the clubs and I appreciate the perspective, I was wondering what all of you thought about the experience level of swinging and how it may affect a person's enjoyment level at a club..... Tim __________________ "I can resist everything except for temptation..."