In our relationship I am bi and he is straight, but at a local club we attend they say that no men are to be together there. I was confused by this and asked if men were not allowed to be together did that mean women were not allowed to be together. The owner told me no, women could be together but men having sex with each other was not swinging it was just gay. I never had the chance to ask her what she meant by that, and to this day it still confuses me.
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