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jcbicouple · 12-28-2003, 04:41 PM

We just answered a thread that referred to swing clubs and how male bisexuality is shunned. Curious now, as to what the real reason for this is. Why is it acceptable for females to be bisexual but not males?
We already know that society doesn't accept it, but they don't accept "swinging" either, so that's not the answer we're looking for. If it was just society, then no one would be swinging at all. We know some people don't like the f/f stuff either, so why are people more adamate about the m/m, and accepting of the f/f even though, from reading this board, there are a lot of people that don't want to watch the females do their thing either.
*Putting neck on blade here* Gut feeling is that it's the fear of people at work or "buddies" finding out (suppose this is the same thing as "society"). We do understand that because we have careers that would not allow for this behavior (swinging)...but why is bisexuality scarier than getting caught swinging? At work, last week actually, one of the guys said something about a couple that "swings" and it got real ugly for a few minutes. The men in the room were very appauled.....so why is it different? Swinging, in general, is certainly not socially safer.

12-28-2003, 04:41 PM	#1 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:jcbicouple	Shunning We just answered a thread that referred to swing clubs and how male bisexuality is shunned. Curious now, as to what the real reason for this is. Why is it acceptable for females to be bisexual but not males? We already know that society doesn't accept it, but they don't accept "swinging" either, so that's not the answer we're looking for. If it was just society, then no one would be swinging at all. We know some people don't like the f/f stuff either, so why are people more adamate about the m/m, and accepting of the f/f even though, from reading this board, there are a lot of people that don't want to watch the females do their thing either. Putting neck on blade here Gut feeling is that it's the fear of people at work or "buddies" finding out (suppose this is the same thing as "society"). We do understand that because we have careers that would not allow for this behavior (swinging)...but why is bisexuality scarier than getting caught swinging? At work, last week actually, one of the guys said something about a couple that "swings" and it got real ugly for a few minutes. The men in the room were very appauled.....so why is it different? Swinging, in general, is certainly not socially safer.