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Originally posted by raylynne
.... We have been talking to a couple online for several months, set up a time to meet with them, they saw us, but wouldn't approach us because she was "chicken". |
For me, common sense comes into play here. Based on the information that you have given...ie: Talking online (no mention of a phone call, in which you could talk to both parties), you set up a meet up time, they see you, but you don't see them. How do you know that you were ever even talking to a couple? The focus suddenly changes to separate rooms in a motel, with someone you have never laid eyes on?
Perhaps, because I was single for many years, I am less likely to be trusting of someone that I do not know, but I can tell you as a couple of eleven years now, there would be no way in hell I'd be meeting with this 'supposed couple' again. Every ounce of this reeks of potential disaster.
It also bothers me that she was *chicken*. If they are a real couple, would you want your first experience to be with someone that doesn't have the courage to meet you for a cup of coffee? In addition to the fact one must always be cautious that there are some strange people out there and the internet makes it so easy to cater to their fantasies.
My opinion. Dump this internet couple now. There are many real couples out there that are not going to be chicken just to meet you in person to talk and aren't going to try to take it to a level that you aren't ready for.
Be sure to keep us updated on what you decide.
Mrs. O