Everyone is different, and you will probably get lots of responses to this post which will verify that.
We ALWAYS play together, never seperate, but if we did...We certainly wouldn't be comfortable going to seperate hotel rooms with people that we didn't know anything about. Hate to be overly cynical, and sound like a fuddy duddy but what if he is someone that can't take no for an answer? What will you do if he wont stop and it's just you and him there, and your husband is to far away to hear you? Sorry, but it just sounds too dangerous to us! We have no interest in playing seperate (not even seperate beds, or seperate partners in the same bed for that matter! LOL) but if we ever decided to try it: We would make certain it was someone that we could trust alone before we did.
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