[raylynne]

Hey, all you experienced ones out there! My husband and I have a question. We're new to swinging, but would like to experience it, at least we think we do. We have been talking to a couple online for several months, set up a time to meet with them, they saw us, but wouldn't approach us because she was "chicken". HOwever, my husband and I did not see them. Now they want to meet, get 2 separate rooms, exchange partners, and go at it. No talking to getting to know one another, no nothing. They are newbies, also, haven't read anything in here, or so they say. Our idea was to get to know a couple some before we make the big jump with them, maybe even become friends. Is this possible, or does everyone just "jump in"? Please advise us, we're totally confused. Thanks for your input. Ray and Lynne