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Originally posted by OhioCouple
"For husbands or men"
Ummm, aren't they one in the same? Or, is there a difference between the two that I've not yet caught on to? |
Husbands are not men. After they get married women own their manhood. They are still allowed at all the club meetings and special functions, but they don't have to pay dues anymore. We feel they've gone through the final rite of passage and we look to them as our leaders and for advice on what to do and not to do concerning women, finances, career, etc. Unfortunately, we sometimes listen to the husbands who tell us what we want to hear instead of the ones who tell us the truth, whatever that is at the moment.
As for the original question, I've NEVER asked a woman I was involved with if she would consider swinging. However, I have this irritating talent for attracting bisexual women (and lesbians, but thats another story) as girlfriends, so when talking about fantasies, multiple partners almost always come up and thats when I drop hints about swinging and start leaving old copies of Connections or Michigan Swingers in my magazine rack when she visits. Then, if she's interested, SHE'LL bring it up after a few weeks and I'll let her think she talked me into trying it for real.