The Swingers Board - View Single Post - We're Average but we want Good Looking. Is this a double standard?

turtles · 12-21-2003, 03:17 PM

A lot of interesting responses. The reason I ask is that there does seem to be a set of rules of conduct so to speak. Everyone refers to "The Lifestyle" which makes it seem more like a culture then just something people do.

That's what this New forum was about - what are the rules? What do you say? What do you do? What's rude and so forth.

We don't automatically assume attrictive people would have great personalities. Still it is a fantasy we wanted to live out and we have certain ideas in our head of what we are looking for. Not really seeking Ken and Barbie, but some people who would turn our heads at the beach would be appreciated. If they are not that fun to be around or we can't stand them we assume it will be pretty obvious and clear before things get too far.

Still we like the concept of SwingLifeStyle much better then Adult Friend Finder.

I mean no offense, but in general it is like LadyCleo mentioned. We want both of us to be really into it, and since we don't have any friends who are into this, I wanted to ask how it goes. We still want to develop a friendship, but with our life so chaotic sometimes it's hard to imagine how you all find time to do anything together.

Thanks for Listening.

12-21-2003, 03:17 PM	#10 (permalink)
turtles Registered Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 3 Location: Northern - MI Status: couple	A lot of interesting responses. The reason I ask is that there does seem to be a set of rules of conduct so to speak. Everyone refers to "The Lifestyle" which makes it seem more like a culture then just something people do. That's what this New forum was about - what are the rules? What do you say? What do you do? What's rude and so forth. We don't automatically assume attrictive people would have great personalities. Still it is a fantasy we wanted to live out and we have certain ideas in our head of what we are looking for. Not really seeking Ken and Barbie, but some people who would turn our heads at the beach would be appreciated. If they are not that fun to be around or we can't stand them we assume it will be pretty obvious and clear before things get too far. Still we like the concept of SwingLifeStyle much better then Adult Friend Finder. I mean no offense, but in general it is like LadyCleo mentioned. We want both of us to be really into it, and since we don't have any friends who are into this, I wanted to ask how it goes. We still want to develop a friendship, but with our life so chaotic sometimes it's hard to imagine how you all find time to do anything together. Thanks for Listening.