Personally i like to meet someone and become friends before anything.But I have had one or two, where the friendship came afterwards.
I have found that you can do a lot of "weeding" by letting someone know that you would like to be friends and then go from there. I have actually spoken with a few that avoided people wanting to be friends. One has even told me that "real" swingers do not want a friendship!!
Becoming friends first, is really a matter of preference, and what you and the other people involved feel comfy with.
My 2 cents..lol
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