Maybe I'm backwards or something, but when I was younger I felt that sex required being close to someone. As I've gotten older, I think being friends or lovers makes the sex great, but the "naughtiness" of having sex with someone I've just met can be a real turn on. This weekend for the first time, I had sex with someone that I just met. The funny thing is that I've talked to her since and we're getting together. And it seems like we have a lot of intrests. So I guess it just depends. To me as long as the sex is good, and the friendship is good I guess it doesn't matter how it comes about.
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