You are definitely not alone in this fantasy. We've tried this twice, once with 3 guys and once with 4 guys, but hubby was an active participant. All of the guys we invited were bi, and we all played together. It was a lot of fun, and something that we'll probably do again. However, next time we'll invite more guys than we really want to have there, as our experience has been that at least half will not show. Seems that this is something that sounds exciting to a lot of guys, but as the reality sets in, it sounds less appealing. Our only fear is that if we invite 20, that will be the time they all show!